Characteristics of Troubled People: Part 2

November 3, 2008 by · Leave a Comment
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This is a continuation of the list of characteristics of troubled people.

5) Unrealistic Approach to Time

The fifth characteristic of a troubled person is an unrealistic approach to time. A person who copes this way crowd the time dimensions of a problem, or they extend the time factors way into the future. This means that the person either wants the problem fixed right away or will delay and delay, which avoids the discomfort of reality but enlarges the person’s problem. Read more

Characteristics of Troubled People: Part 1

October 30, 2008 by · Leave a Comment
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In dealing with various people who seek help, some cope cope quite well with their crises and others quite poorly. It is possible to predict which is which and below is a list of characteristics of troubled people which can serve as indicators.

1) Overwhelmed

One characteristic is that the person is nearly overwhelmed in a crisis. Prior to the crisis the person is emotionally weak and responds in a way that makes matters worse, but from the person’s perspective it is the most efficient thing possible. The reason is because that person is already hurting emotionally. Read more